Friday, August 26, 2016

Man, I'm Tired!

It has been confirmed that I am, indeed, a Laughing Old(er) Lady, possibly with extra emphasis on “old”! A few weeks ago, I had a weekend houseguest. We had a lovely weekend, but oh, my! I could barely open my eyes Monday morning and even after a couple cups of coffee, I still felt like I had been run over by a truck. The reason I was so worn out (albeit happy and laughing) is pretty simple – my houseguest was a 16-year-old girl who arrived for supper on Friday, and left around 3:30 Sunday.

Now remember, I am a divorced, childless LOL who has lived alone for the last ten years. I have had a reclusive cat for the past two years, but Cashmere doesn’t talk much, doesn’t keep up with current events, and seldom shares her opinions with me unless we are discussing whether it’s time for me to feed her. I assure you, my guest was much less demanding regarding food and much more forthcoming regarding life!

We stayed up way past my bedtime on Friday night engaged in a quite lively, interesting conversation before we plotted our strategy for errands and thrift-store-shopping on Saturday. It was a delightful evening, but I was dog-tired when we finally staggered to our rooms.

Saturday was an outstanding day. Despite our well-laid plans, we slept right through breakfast-time. Not a pair to sweat the small stuff, we hit a neighborhood diner for lunch then we launched into overdrive. We did the critical errands but we never made it to any thrift stores. We headed that way, then started thinking of other things we needed to see and do. We never slowed down until we had hit a few antique stores, several boutiques, a plant store, and the Market Basket (which is kind of the Tuesday Morning of craft/hobby stores). Somewhere in there, we stopped by the local snowball shop to cool off and rest our weary feet. By the time we finished our whirlwind of activity, then cooked and ate supper, it was dark and I was feeling a little ramshackle as we engaged in our respective restful, arty activities (knitting for me and sketching for her) prior to heading for bed. I was happy to note that my guest was a little tired, too, and we went to bed at a reasonable time that night. (At my age, feeling worse for the wear after an active day is alleviated somewhat when a much younger person is also feeling used up. I believe I represented my generation quite well by not collapsing immediately following the dishes. HA!)

We went to 8:30 church on Sunday, then rested at home for a while before we set out for lunch in the Paseo district. We dined on the patio at Sauced. My companion ordered a Rice Krispy Treat that was still warm – and shockingly large – in addition to pizza. Here’s what we ate. The Rice Krispy Treat (in the back in the bottom photo) was about half eaten by the time we got our pizza, so you can see how enormous it was initially!






After the delicious pizza, we hit several of the cool shops in the area. We saw a lot of fun stuff, but seriously, I think this was my favorite display:





Seriously? Someone will pay $20 for a shirt from the ‘70s? 


We spent more time in Ulta on Sunday afternoon than I had cumulatively spent there since I first saw an Ulta in the ‘90s, and it was hilarious experience. We saw and tried out things I’d never before actively considered, including lime green lipstick. (It’s not for me.) We had a lovely chat with a young woman who demonstrated how my guest could fill in and darken her eyebrows, then showed me how to cover up the white in mine. (sigh)

From my point of view, the weekend was a smashing success. It was a hoot to find balled-up socks in the dining room on Saturday morning and a pair of shoes sprawled next to art supplies in the living room on Sunday. Parents doubtless grow weary of seeing teenage detritus strewn about the house, but the things I saw made me happy because it meant my guest felt at home in my home. She kept her bathroom spotlessly clean, helped with the cooking and the dishes, and even insisted on taking me out for lunch on Sunday. By about five minutes after she arrived, the guest bedroom looked like a bomb had gone off in there – in fact, I wondered where all the stuff had come from because she brought only a backpack with her – but everything was perfectly ship-shape when she left.

Based on our subsequent interactions, I say with confidence that my teenaged guest enjoyed our weekend together as much as I did. I hope she comes back soon!



A note about snowballs:
Aloha, our local shop, is located at the corner of Route 66 (aka 39th Expressway) and Council Road in front of the Sears Homestore in Bethany, Oklahoma. Aloha is a year-round snowball / coffee shop. They have good food, too. I’ve tried quite a few menu items with no disappointments; the chicken salad is particularly delicious. I have visited Aloha for breakfast, lunch, and/or an iced coffee many times, but I had never tried a snowball. Big mistake!! Their snowballs are the best! Order a snowball “Hawaiian style” for a scoop of ice cream at the bottom; you will be happy you did. There are many tempting flavors, all so delicious you will swoon! I had German Chocolate Cake and my guest had Cappuccino. YUM!! All the employees are delightful – friendly and helpful. If you happen to be in the area, go there! You won’t regret it!  




Oh, and there's indoor seating, too, and shelves of games and books in case you need entertainment while you eat and drink. 

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